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Every day whether I want to or not, I ask myself if I still have all my marbles. I had lots of them when I was young, but I kept them in a tiny little leather bag that I carried to school every day. Weather permitting, I would try to win someone else\u2019s cat\u2019s eye, boulder, shooter, biggie or aggie if I could.<\/p>\n
But the kind of marbles I\u2019m talking about now, are the kind that roll around in your brain. Sometimes, a brain fart can occur without warning and it can really throw you for a loop! \u00a0If you are with friends your own age, they just wait for it to pass, because it happens to them all the time. Generally, you recover fast, if you\u2019re lucky.<\/p>\n
After I turned 40, I noticed I\u2019d be driving somewhere and I would \u201ctemporarily forget\u201d where the heck I was going! But somehow I always seemed to figure it out. At that time, I had a bunch of kids, and ran a business with my husband, and when I think back, I wonder how I actually did everything I needed to do each day without collapsing each night. Luckily, the night always refreshed both of us and to his day, I\u2019m always raring to go each morning!<\/p>\n
I have loved every day of my life. I married my best friend, adored all my children and my amazing friends. Each of us helped one another navigate our lives. I have lost many of my friends and grieved with them through the loss of a child or spouse.<\/p>\n
Developing dementia or Alzheimer\u2019s is one of the worst things that can happen to someone and it also affects the entire family. \u00a0If you\u2019re lucky it starts out later in life but it can progress over many years. It\u2019s hard for me to not try and finish a friend\u2019s sentence because they are struggling with their memory. In the very beginning stages, people know that they\u2019re slipping, and in the end they don\u2019t remember family members. The movie \u201cNotebook\u201d, comes to mind.<\/p>\n
Just being able to recall memories from own your life is amazing because it can really enhance the quality of your life. Reminiscing together with friends and family is a gift and being able to continue making memories is a big bonus! As for me, writing this blog plus the other activities I love doing are what keeps me moving forward. And so far, I have not been running after my own marbles!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Every day whether I want to or not, I ask myself if I still have all my marbles. I had lots of them when I was young, but I kept them in a tiny little leather bag that I carried to school every day. Weather permitting, I would try to win someone else\u2019s cat\u2019s eye, boulder, shooter, biggie or aggie if I could.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":6293,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[343],"tags":[1084,1082,1083,89,370,337,835],"class_list":["post-6294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-heather","tag-alzheimers","tag-brain-fart","tag-dementia","tag-family","tag-friendships","tag-memories","tag-seniors"],"yoast_head":"\n