Raoul’s Two Cents: August 23, 2024
Just One of Those Days
Wednesday was a sweet, sour and delicious day for me … a confusing day.
Sweet because I wrote a song for my wife. Sour because I’m very concerned about my friend who opened up to me. Delicious because my college friends said I look like someone in the Fast and the Furious movie.
SWEET
Being human is a juggling act of emotions. I talked about this last week when I shared the movie UP. What is it with that movie? I was so inspired to put words to the theme music because it reminded me of my wife. The melody played in my head for days and one morning the first words came out in my dream. I spent a few days honing the lyrics, the melody and the harmony. It ain’t perfect but my wife loved it and that’s what’s important. The song’s kinda mushy but If my wife will allow me, I’d like to share it with you someday.
SOUR
Not to get into too much detail but my friend is going through a difficult time. I wish I had a magic wand to erase all of the pain and the anxiety. We’ve stepped into the realm of spiritual topics. We could use your prayers.
DELICIOUS
My old chums sent me a picture of an Asian actor/director from the movie Fast and the Furious (I never watched that episode). They said the guy looks like me. I laughed when I saw the picture but I had to make a double take because he really does look like me
… at least when I still had hair that wafted in the summer tropical breeze like Favio … and before my eyes puffed up like Igor in Young Frankenstein … and way before the wrinkles of my shriveled skin. This is the picture they sent me:
I was flattered because I think that guy’s pretty handsome. So if he’s handsome, can I say I am too? Shock!! Honestly, I never thought I was handsome. At one point I thought I was downright ugly when pimples covered my teenage face. I was so ashamed of my looks that I would always look down. But it was my Dad who started to build my confidence when he said not to worry about my pimples because it “made me very manly.” I never cared how I look anyway. Still don’t. It’s not important.
Imagine going through life not knowing I was actually good looking? The only person who said I was handsome was my grandma when she was combing my 5 year old hair with greasy pomade (one of my earliest memories). I never believed her because grandmas are supposed to say sweet things. Even my Mom never said I was handsome … even my wife never said so. In fact, one time I asked her if I was handsome and she said “not really but you’re charming.” Well, whaddayaknow — I’m the ugly duckling who’s been living a lie — I’ve been a swan in duck’s clothing. Very strange to find out this late in life. Send in the clowns baby! Send in the clowns!
So I don’t know what to call Wednesday. Weird day, perhaps. I have no real message today. I can only think of Forrest Gump.
As always, this is just me. Is this you too? Did we connect?
TGIF people!
“Confusion now hath made its masterpiece.” —William Shakespear
“I’m not confused. I’m just well mixed” —Robert Frost
JOKE OF THE WEEK
Thanks to Tom of Pasadena, CA
Original art by Raoul Pascual.
Parting Shots
Thanks to Tom of Pasadena, CA
Thanks to Sharon of Connecticut
Thanks to Jennifer of Denver, Colorado
Thanks to Magda of Boston, Massachusetts
Thanks to Art of Sierra Madre, CA
Thanks to Drew of Anaheim, CA
Thanks to Benny of Detroit
Thanks to Rachel of Seattle, Washington
I found these:
My good friend (and jokester) Terry and I came up with this.
Larry
August 27, 2024 at 4:19 pm
I think you are handsome. Don’t think I’m gay, but you have a very nice smile. You wrote something mushy? I thought I was the mushy one. You are Mr. abbreviation. Thx, Larry.
I have to hear your song. I will be the judge if it is mushy.
TGIF
Norm
August 27, 2024 at 4:21 pm
I really enjoy your emails & would appreciate them to continue.. My personal email should be used in future.
Best regards,
Norm
Heather
August 27, 2024 at 4:22 pm
Yep, life is a box of chocolates and if you get the assortment it’s much better because you have some soft you have some caramel you have some nuts marshmallows. And if you buy the kind of chocolates that have a map of the inside, you don’t have to eat four or five to get the one you really want. I believe they call that success.
Heather
August 27, 2024 at 4:22 pm
I love that we have all these wonderful intersections in our lives where people come into our lives and the people who have gratitude for thier lives, will remain in our lives – ALWAYS.
Ed
August 27, 2024 at 4:23 pm
Very nice, Raoul.
Hilda
August 27, 2024 at 4:24 pm
Today, Friday, was sweet and funny.
Tom
August 27, 2024 at 4:24 pm
Thanks Raoul, You are handsome! After all you are a Child of God and resemble your Dad. Your effort expended in our behalf to bring mirth into our lives makes you superb in addition to being handsome. Tom of Pasadena
Oscar
August 27, 2024 at 4:32 pm
Good Morning Raoul .
TGIF 😂😂😂 parents didn’t care 😂😂😂
Praying for your friend with anxiety and stuff . That’s cool about the song for your wife and you’re tall light and handsome 🤷♂️😂😂😂
And cool too like the fast and the furious dude 😎 also with so many talents brother. You would be a blessing to any chick but Jesus blessed you and your wife to be together forever. She is also a awesome wife that created a beautiful family between you all .children, grandchildren and so on 🙏🙏🙏 God bless you all 🙏