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Bullies on Friday

Good Friday Bullies

Sorry if you were expecting something funny today. It’s not a day for jokes so move on. See you next Friday.

Whenever I do this, quite a few of my readers unsubscribe and I respect that. For the rest of you, thanks for sticking with me.

It is Good Friday in the Christian world. It is the day when Christians all over the world remember the scourging of Jesus at the hands of the Roman guards some 2,000 years ago. Yes, it actually happened on a real point in time and on a real geographic location to a 33 year old man whose only crime was claiming he was the son of God.

About 2,000 years prior to that another man, Abraham, a wealthy 75 year old man seemed to have everything except a blood heir to his earthly fortune. Then one day, he had an unusual conversation with God. He made a deal — they made a covenant … a contract! God said, “you follow me and I will take care of you and your offspring. Yes, and I will also provide you children as plentiful as the stars and sands.” It sounded like a good deal so Abraham uprooted himself and left his geographic and spiritual comfort zone to be true to his contract.

For 25 years Abe remained faithful despite some occasional ups and downs. Then Sara, his senior citizen wife, gave birth to their one and only son, Isaac. All of this is recorded in the Bible so look this up if you doubt me.

Happy father. Happy wife. Happy son. But then Abe gets this discouraging news from God. “What?!? You want me to … what?!?” asked Abe in disbelief. “sacrifice my son Isaac? The one I waited 25 years for? The one who will start my heritage as many as the stars and the sands in the beach?!? And you want me to do this to prove my love for you?!?” Oh, the struggle he must have had in his mind. Everyone else in the pagan world he lived in were sacrificing their babies but he didn’t expect this from someone he had learned to love and trust. The next morning, he was too dumbfounded, he didn’t tell anyone that he was packing up to sacrifice Isaac atop Mount Moriah. He didn’t even tell his wife Sara. Apparently, 25 years of waiting had taught Abraham a lot about trusting God.

On top of Mount Moriah, probably with tears in his eyes, looking at his beloved son, he lifts his dagger. Then suddenly he hears a familiar voice from above: “STOP! Do not lay a hand on the boy!” The test was over and it was back to Happy Days.

2,000 years later, Jesus is praying in the garden of Gethsemane not very far from where Isaac was to be sacrificed. 33 years of living as a mortal was about to come to an end. The prophecies that had sprinkled across the ages were about to culminate on this fateful early morning. “Please, Dad, I’ve done all that you asked of me … all the miracles, all the preaching … they are about to end in this unimaginable torture. But there’s too much pain. Is there any way, you can get me off the hook? Dad?! Dad?!!?!!”

Unlike Abraham, Jesus gets no response.

Jesus knew the answer. He just had to ask. “OK. Yeah, I know … I gotta go through with this,” Jesus said. “Susie’s worth this. Bobbie’s worth this … all of you who are reading this … you guys are worth this.”

This reminds me of when my son was in middle school, he came home and told us he was bullied in school. You can imagine the anger that percolated inside me. The next day I asked my son to point out the bully to me. Reluctantly, he did. The bully was sitting under the sun beside his school bag. I walked up to him, sat beside him and asked him to fess up. He stammered and said he didn’t do anything. I told him I was watching him. And then I left. I wasn’t thinking. I probably shouldn’t have done that but the anger moved me to protect my little boy. The boy never bothered my son again.

“They stripped him and put a scarlet robe on him, and then twisted together a crown of thorns and set it on his head. They put a staff in his right hand. Then they knelt in front of him and mocked him. ‘Hail, king of the Jews!’ they said. They spit on him, and took the staff and struck him on the head again and again.”
—Matthew 27: 28

God, loved us so much, that he allowed the bullies to mutilate his son’s body. Think about it. Jesus allowed it to happen and his Dad didn’t do anything. They both knew it had to be done.

It’s good Friday guys. It’s called “good” because God turned something real bad into something amazingly good for our benefit.

We have much to thank for this “good” Good Friday.

Happy Easter, people!

TGIF Videos

funny video

“Old Rugged Cross” Acapella
Sent by Charlie of New Jersey

Charlie sent this to me 3 years ago. I saved this for a day like today. A beautiful song with beautiful lyrics sung by 4 beautiful voices. Simply awesome!


Parting Shot

crucifixion and resurrection


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  1. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:01 pm

    Always a good read. It is amazing to me how cruel people people can be to one another. It takes so little energy to smile and sooo much to frown. People have the power to change themselves and any negative behavior they have if they want to change. Happy Easter.



  2. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:01 pm


    THANKS for skipping the jokes today. Let me share my thoughts with you: The next time you look at the crucifix, don’t think of Christ’s pain, suffering, or death. Think, instead, how much He loves…..us.

    Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam


  3. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:02 pm

    Thank you for your post!



  4. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:02 pm

    Amen to all of the above Raoul! Thank you for this gift on this special day. I also loved the song and will pass it along to some others. Blessings to you and your wife!



  5. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:04 pm

    Thank you Brother,

    Great thoughts. Heard Dr. Corey – Dean at Biola University, (Did you know that BIOLA stands for Bible Institute of Los Angeles?) keynote speaker at the Whittier Mayor’s Prayer Breakfast this morning speaking about his book,” Kindness”. He said Kindness and nice are not the same. Nice is not in the Bible. Kindness is not a random act -, it is intentional. Kindness reaches outside of people that are just like us. I had another thought; it was kind that Jesus washed his disciples feet, something that a master never did. That is why Simon Peter protested. But the Word says that Jesus washed all Twelve Disciples Feet = 24. That means that he even washed Judas feet – both of them, and it doesn’t say that he pinched Juda’s heel even! Even though he knew that Judas was the betrayor! That is kind beyond what most humans could endure. One more thought: on Easter Sunday the stone was not rolled away so Jesus could get out – but so that We could get in – Halleluiah! After all, Jesus went to the Disciples where they were hiding in the closed room afterwards without opening the door! Jesus can even open a closed heart – share him with everybody.

    Parting thought – the photo with the boy reading the book – the cat should be black – just a thought.

    Happy Easter to you and yours,

    (:>}) – Chuck & Linda


    • Raoul

      April 2, 2018 at 6:06 pm

      Nice collection of insights. Indeed there is a lot of behind the scenes

      Black cat? Why? Bad luck?

      TGIF! Happy Easter!



      • Chuck

        April 2, 2018 at 6:06 pm

        No not bad luck – Cat of Nine Lives is cultural. Shakespeare referred to it. Interesting history – Spanish say seven , some say six. Cats always land on their feet; 3 to play, 3 to stray and 3 to stay. Asians have them as lucky 8, or 3 X 7, holy Trinity X 3. Of course they only have one life, just a myth of course. Tawny cat looked to ordinary in photo – I had a tawny cat as a boy, until I found out I am very allergic to cat palin – that from dry saliva from them licking their fur. saliva, dries and floats in the air. Dogs somewhat, but not as bad. Dog gone! I Enjoyed your column . Wednesday we went to see our daughter receive a special Commendation Award for teaching at her school – Woodruff Elementary School in Bellflower. Over 25 years – yikes! The student body assembly was out in the school yard. She has a room of 30 – 1st graders! I still enjoy hearing our little Nettie Belle called, “Ms. Kumamoto” Alert and cheerful children. Jesus loves the little children. Pics to follow. I noticed many encouraging and positive signs posted – and some that you would have appreciated – about Not Bullying.

        (:>}) – Chuck


  6. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:04 pm

    Love it Raoul that you possess the Faith and Courage to comply with the Good Friday we Celebrate. Some think we are not to express our Faith but in my humble opinion my Faith is the most important thing not only in this life but forever in Eternity, God Bless!

    Viewed the move, “Paul the Apostle” and found it fulfilling in describing the beginnings of Scripture in a Roman Cell.

    Tom of Pasadena
    Happy Easter to you and Yours.


  7. TGIF Reader

    April 2, 2018 at 6:05 pm

    Thank you for the blessing on this Good Friday – I loved the video of the old rugged cross – that song always makes me cry – Blessing to you



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